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The 8 Best Sex Toys for Pegging in 2023, According to Sex Experts

No matter your sexual orientation or gender, there's a pegging device on this list for you.

By Zachary Zane
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IT DOESN'T matter how you identify: if you have a prostate, then being on the receiving end of anal penetration can feel really good. That walnut-sized gland located underneath the bladder and in front of the rectum is packed with nerve endings, and when properly stimulated, it can even lead to full-body orgasms. There are many ways to stimulate the prostate, but one of the most fun ways is pegging, a sexual practice in which a person penetrates her partner's anus with a strap-on dildo.

The term "pegging" was popularized by sex columnist Dan Savage, who held a contest to name the sex act in 2001. While the term initially referred to women pegging men, it has since expanded to be more inclusive of all genders. Anyone can put on a strap-on dildo and peg anyone, as long as all parties are into it.

  • Triple Strap-On Harness Kit

    Great for multiple sizes

    Lovehoney Triple Strap-On Harness Kit

    $30 at Lovehoney
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  • Strap-on-Me Vibe

    A great versatile strap-on

    Strap on Me Strap-on-Me Vibe

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  • Sharevibe

    Great for Hands-free pegging

    Fun Factory Sharevibe

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  • Vibrator Strapless Strap-On

    Great for vaginas

    Happy Rabbit Vibrator Strapless Strap-On

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  • Deuce Male Harness

    Great for penis owners

    SpareParts Hardwear Deuce Male Harness

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Pegging equipment is plentiful in today's sex toy market. There are dildos that attach to a harness, as well as hands-free, harness-less dildos that fit in a person's vagina, explains Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of the sex toy retailer Organic Loven.

FYI, if you have a penis, you can peg people, too. “Penis owners can use strap-on devices like the SpareParts Deuce Male Harness that comes with two holes: one for the dildo and one for their penis,” Sparks says. “This is useful if the partner suffers from erectile dysfunction, as he can use the strap on to penetrate his partner—and if he does get an erection, can quickly change to using his penis. It can also be used for double penetration.”

Which pegging toys are right for you? Here are some that we highly recommend, based on experience.

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Great for multiple sizes

Lovehoney Triple Strap-On Harness Kit

Triple Strap-On Harness Kit
Great for multiple sizes

Lovehoney Triple Strap-On Harness Kit

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$30 at Lovehoney
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This four-piece set comes with one harness and three different-sized dildos, so you can work your way up to bigger and better things. The adjustable harness has a built-in pocket for a bullet vibe, which adds vibrations for the wearer's enjoyment.

What do buyers say? "The straps allow for different body shapes to fit into them with a great level of adjustment," says one lovehoney.com reviewer. Sizing allows for gradual progression onto bigger Dildos.

A great versatile strap-on

Strap on Me Strap-on-Me Vibe

Strap-on-Me Vibe
A great versatile strap-on

Strap on Me Strap-on-Me Vibe

Credit: Organic Loven

This hands-free vibrating pegging toy offers dual clitoris and G-spot stimulation. It's fun for everyone!

Great for Hands-free pegging

Fun Factory Sharevibe

Sharevibe
Great for Hands-free pegging

Fun Factory Sharevibe

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Sharevibe is a vibrating double dildo designed for hands-free pegging. One end goes in the vagina, and it can stay in there snugly while the vulva-owner penetrates the receiving partner. It's a great way for both partners to experience the joys of internal stimulation!

What do buyers say? "My partner and I have been using the Sharevibe for over a year now," says one funfactory.com reviewer. "The cost was so incredibly worth it! She gets an orgasm out of penetrating me almost every time and the way that it is shaped hits my G-spot that leads to shivering orgasms."

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Great for vaginas

Happy Rabbit Vibrator Strapless Strap-On

Vibrator Strapless Strap-On
Great for vaginas

Happy Rabbit Vibrator Strapless Strap-On

Credit: Organic Loven

Happy Rabbit Vibrator Strapless Strap-On...try to say that ten times fast! This is another vibrating pegging toy that fits into the wearer's vagina. It comes with a mini-rabbit at the base, which stimulates the clitoris.

What do buyers say? "A lot of these strapless strap-ons also don't have any give to adjust the angle at the base. This one is both really easily adjustable and sturdy once adjusted," says one amazon.com reviewer.

Great for penis owners

SpareParts Hardwear Deuce Male Harness

Deuce Male Harness
Great for penis owners

SpareParts Hardwear Deuce Male Harness

Credit: Organic Loven

This is the harness for penis-owners Sparks was talking about in the introduction. It has two holes: one for your penis and one for a dildo. You can switch between using your penis and the dildo, or use both for some DP action.

"The straps have held up with rough use, and we've never had it slip or slide out of place in the middle of anything," says one amazon.com reviewer. "The fact that you can use two dildos or a dildo and a real cock at the same time is pretty handy too."

Great for smaller sizes

Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Harness Kit

Beginner's Strap-On Harness Kit
Great for smaller sizes

Lovehoney Beginner's Strap-On Harness Kit

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If anal penetration is new to you, and you don't want to shell out too much cash, this beginner's kit could be the way to go. It comes with a dildo on the shorter and skinnier side (only 4.5 inches of insertable length).

What do buyers say? "This is a great beginner set but the dildo is really only for beginners to any sort of anal play," says lovehoney.com reviewers. "If you have had some experience I would definitely recommend a slightly bigger dildo as you will be upsizing straight away as I did."

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Great for beginners

B-Vibe Pegging Newbie Bundle

Pegging Newbie Bundle
Great for beginners

B-Vibe Pegging Newbie Bundle

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The Pegging Newbie Kit is a great choice for beginners. It comes with a novice butt plug, which you can use to warm up if you've never been penetrated. Once you're used to the feeling of having something inside you, you can transition to using the rest of the pegging equipment.

Lovehoney Double Fun Vibrating Double Penetration Strap-On

Double Fun Vibrating Double Penetration Strap-On

Lovehoney Double Fun Vibrating Double Penetration Strap-On

Let's say you're monogamous, but still have a fantasy of bringing another penis into the mix... Here's your solution! This dildo fits onto the wearer's penis via a cock ring that fits around the shaft and testicles.

What do buyers say? "Good product all around except the ring that goes around the sack area, and is a little tight and is somewhat hard to get put on," says one amazon.com reviewer. "If you're looking for a product to spice up the relationship with double penetrating without having to add another person in the mix, this product would be just right for the time being. Highly recommend."

Great Lube for Pegging

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant

Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant
Great Lube for Pegging

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant

Don't forget the lube! Lube makes all kinds of sex wetter and better, but it's especially important for butt stuff, since the anus doesn't self-lubricate like the vagina does. We typically recommend silicone-based lube for anal sex, since it's thick and long-lasting, but silicone-based lube can damage silicone-based sex toys—i.e. the pegging equipment on this list. That's why we recommend this water-based anal lubricant for your next pegging adventure. Remember to reapply liberally!

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Zachary Zane has been reporting on the best sex toys for men for the past decade. For this story, Zane tested over a dozen sex toys and lubes to find the best ones for pegging. He judged them based on durability, size, and whether they worked well for people with vaginas or penises. He also reached out to Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of the sex toy retailer Organic Loven, on her favorite pegging sex toys.

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