8 Mind-Blowing Chair Sex Positions to Try Tonight, Recommended by Sex Experts
Who says sex needs to happen in a bed?
FUN FACT: ONE of the most versatile tools you can use to elevate sex is already in your house. While the humble chair may serve a lot of everyday purposes, it’s often overlooked when it comes time to get intimate. But we’re here to say it’s high time for that to change. You can use it during oral, anal, and vaginal sex—or while engaging in some titillating foreplay. The point is, having some fun outside of your bed can infuse some much-needed novelty into sex life that’s starting to feel routine.
“A chair can provide support and stability, and even make some positions more comfortable and accessible,” says Lisa Lawless, a clinical psychotherapist specializing in sexual health and wellness and founder of Holistic Wisdom.
It can also allow you to experiment with new positions and angles that might not be possible on a bed.
“There are so many ways to use a chair that your chair sex can range from pretty basic to acrobatic and everything in between,” adds certified sex therapist Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. “And many chair sex positions get you really physically close with your partner.”
Lawless notes that chairs can also be helpful during sex for those with disabilities or mobility issues. By supporting some of your body weight, they can take pressure off the spine. Why does this matter? Well, the more comfortable you are during sex, the longer you’ll be able to keep going for.
Something to remember, though: not all chairs are created equal. According to Renée Denyer, a sex educator and manager at Sh! Women’s Store, pouf chairs are great for doggy style and anal play, arm-less chairs are more practical for cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, and soft armchairs are great for oral sex. You might want to experiment with different types and heights until you find one that works for you and your partner.
With all that in mind, here are some expert-approved chair sex positions you’ll want to test drive pronto.
Rebecca Strong is a Boston-based freelance writer currently writing about Sex & Relationships at Men's Health. In her free time, she enjoys generous pours of Marlborough sauvignon blanc, true crime podcasts, and writing music (under her stage name, BEX). Rebecca is a graduate of Emerson College (BA) and The Boston Conservatory at Berklee (MFA). She has also covered health and wellness, fitness, travel, and lifestyle for Insider, AskMen, Healthline, Health.com, Clean Plates, StyleCaster, Eat This Not That, Best Life, and Bustle.
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