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The 18 Best Lubes for Sex, Tested by Sex and Grooming Experts

Your guide to greasing up in every situation.

By Zachary Zane and Garrett Munce
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FINDING THE right lube takes the friction out of sex, literally. From masturbation to partner sex to using sex toys, lube makes everything smoother.

We know, we know: Lube isn't exactly the sexiest-seeming product on the market, starting with its name. (And "personal lubricant" ain't much better.) But if you find a way to work it into the moment—think: using it for an erotic massage—the experience becomes a whole lot better. "It's not about making the lube itself sexy," sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., says in Men's Health Best. Sex. Ever. "It's about just incorporating it into how you are sexually appreciating and getting turned on by your partner."

  • Organic Aloe + Plant Based Lube

    Best Organic Lube

    P.S. Organic Aloe + Plant Based Lube

    $19 at psgoodtimes.com
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  • Personal Moisturizer

    Best-Looking Lube

    ZALO Personal Moisturizer

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  • Luxury Lubricant

    Best Silicone Lube

    Uberlube Luxury Lubricant

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  • Hydrating Organic Lube

    Great for Sex Toys

    Goodparts Hydrating Organic Lube

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  • So-Low Lotion

    Best Lube for Masturbating

    Cake So-Low Lotion

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But there are currently hundreds, if not thousands, of different lubes that you can buy online—it’s a lot to choose from! Still, it's great to have options, as we all have different needs and preferences for lubing up sex.

For example, if you or your partner has sensitive skin or allergies, you might want a personal lubricant with more organic ingredients. If you’re into anal, you probably want a thicker lube that doesn’t dry out as quickly because the anus isn't self-lubricating like the vagina. Or maybe you’re really cautious about what you put on or in your body—in which case, you should check out these natural lubricants.

But if you’re someone who just wants a high-quality lube for all types of sex and masturbation? That’s when the choice becomes overwhelming. But don’t worry, we've got you covered. We’ve tested all the lubes on this list, and can confidently say they feel great and get the job done.

Read more: How Men's Health Tests Products


The Different Types of Lube

Before we delve into our lube recommendations, it’s necessary to break down the various types of lubes: water-based, silicone-based, oils, and hybrid.

Water-Based Lube: Water-based lubes are known as the “gold standard” for sex. That’s because they aren’t sticky and are easy to rinse off.

Silicone-Based Lube: The negative thing about water-based lubes is that they dry out quickly. That’s why some people prefer silicone-based lubricants if their partner struggles with vaginal dryness, or anal is on the menu. The issue with silicone lubes is that they can last a little too long. You can feel sticky even after scrubbing yourself with soap and water. They can also stain your sheets.

Hybrid Lube: Then there are hybrid lubes, which are thicker than water-based lubes but less viscous than traditional silicone-based lubes.

Oil-Based Lube:
Last but not least are oils. There are very few commercial lubricants that are oil-based because you can’t use oils with condoms: they degrade the latex. Oil-based lubes (or oily DIY options, like olive oil) are thicker, stickier, and make even more of a mess than silicone lube.

With that primer, we’re finally ready to get to our favorite personal lubricant recommendations.

Best Organic Lube

P.S. Organic Aloe + Plant Based Lube

Organic Aloe + Plant Based Lube
Best Organic Lube

P.S. Organic Aloe + Plant Based Lube

$19 at psgoodtimes.com

Made from organic and vegan products, P.S condom's lube is pH-balanced, non-irritating, and naturally moisturizing. It's great to use for all types of sex, including with silicone toys.

BaseWater
Price per ounce$5.50
Best-Looking Lube

ZALO Personal Moisturizer

Personal Moisturizer
Best-Looking Lube

ZALO Personal Moisturizer

A lighter lube that's great for vaginal and toy play, Zalo's water-based lube is hypoallergenic, fragrance-free, and non-staining. (Your sheets will thank you.) It's also packaged in a sleek gold bottle if you or your partner is somewhat who values aesthetics.

Base Water
Price per ounce$4.40
Best Silicone Lube

Uberlube Luxury Lubricant

Luxury Lubricant
Best Silicone Lube

Uberlube Luxury Lubricant

Silicone-based lubes are king, says sexual-health expert Evan Goldstein, M.D. Überlube ($32) has silicone and vitamin E for more moisture.

BaseSilicone
Price per ounce$19.70
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Great for Sex Toys

Goodparts Hydrating Organic Lube

Hydrating Organic Lube
Great for Sex Toys

Goodparts Hydrating Organic Lube

It is glycerin-free and contains mushroom and quinoa extracts, which may also help protect your skin.

BaseAloe
Price per ounce$7
Best Lube for Masturbating

Cake So-Low Lotion

So-Low Lotion
Best Lube for Masturbating

Cake So-Low Lotion

Hand lotion chafes. Vaseline is hard to clean up. Cake So-Low Lotion starts as a cream, melts into a slick gel, and has soothing aloe and vitamin E. Enjoy.

BaseCoconut oil
Price per ounce$6.06
Longest Lasting Lube

Momentum Silicone-Based Lubricant (Pack of Two)

Silicone-Based Lubricant (Pack of Two)
Longest Lasting Lube

Momentum Silicone-Based Lubricant (Pack of Two)

Momentum's silicone lube is soft to the touch and long-lasting—a little squirt goes a long way. It also isn't sticky the way many silicone lubes are.

BaseSilicone
Price per ounce$3.50
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Great lube for Ass Play

Pure for Men Lube

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This lube starts a little firmer when you apply, but as you start to have sex and things heat up, both literally and metaphorically, it melts and slips everywhere (in the best of ways). It's also great to use if you like eating ass with lube (or take breaks from anal penetration to eat ass) because it has a fabulous coconut oil taste.

BaseCoconut
Price per ounce$4.25
Best Budget-Friendly Lube

Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant

Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant
Best Budget-Friendly Lube

Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant

A classic water-based lube for all types of sex, Lovehoney's Enjoy lubricant has a big ol' pump which makes it a lot easier and quicker to use while having sex. It also comes in an 8.5-ounce bottle, so you get a lot of bang for your buck with this bad boy.

BaseWater
Price per ounce$2
Most Moisturizing Lube

Cake Natural Sex Lube

Natural Sex Lube
Most Moisturizing Lube

Cake Natural Sex Lube

No, the lube does not taste like cake. That is simply the name of the brand. This lube is ideal for vaginal, solo penis play, or toy play. The organic formula is ultra-moisturizing and contains a blend of mushroom extract, quinoa, hemp, flax green tea, and oat.

BaseAloe
Price per house$4.24
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Best Multipurpose Lube

Durex Massage and Play 2-in-1 Massage Gel and Personal Lubricant

Massage and Play 2-in-1 Massage Gel and Personal Lubricant
Best Multipurpose Lube

Durex Massage and Play 2-in-1 Massage Gel and Personal Lubricant

"This water-based lube can be used with toys, penetrative sex, anal sex, and as a massage gel," Ashley Cobb, a sexpert for Lovehoney, previously told Men’s Health. "It has a subtle but very nice smell of ylang-ylang, and it cleans up easily without leaving annoying residue."

BaseWater
Price per ounce$2

Gun Oil H2O 2 oz Personal Lubricant

H2O 2 oz Personal Lubricant

Gun Oil H2O 2 oz Personal Lubricant

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Gun Oil’s H20 lube doesn’t dry out nearly as quickly as other water-based lubricants. It also has extracts of aloe vera and oat to repair and minimize irritation, along with stimulating ginseng and guarana extracts to promote blood flow.

BaseWater
Price per ouce$3.98

Swiss Navy Water-based Lubricant

Water-based Lubricant

Swiss Navy Water-based Lubricant

This is another excellent water-based lube that doesn’t require constant reapplication. One squirt and you’re good to go!

BaseWater
Price per ounce$2.32
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Promescent Water-Based Lubricant

Water-Based Lubricant

Promescent Water-Based Lubricant

Promescent lube is 100% paraben-free, odorless, colorless, and greaseless. What I personally like about this lube is that it feels thick without feeling sticky. (It also isn’t too difficult to wash off!)

Base Water
Price per ounce$2

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

"This is one of the best anal water-based lubes around," Cobb said. "It has a very slick consistency and is long-lasting while remaining in place with its gel consistency, unlike most water-based lubes."

BaseWater
Price per ounce$2.94

Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

This lube is great for long sessions of anal sex since it has a highly concentrated amount of silicone. The addition of jojoba also has a relaxing effect on the body.w

BaseSilicone
Price per ounce$10.30
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Royal Organic Aloe Water Based Lube Gel

Organic Aloe Water Based Lube Gel

Royal Organic Aloe Water Based Lube Gel

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This lube is very “thin,” so to speak, so it’s ideal if you just need a little bit of lube and don't want to create a Slip N Slide in your bed.

BaseWater
Price per ounce$6

Hello Cake Tush Cush

Tush Cush

Hello Cake Tush Cush

I like the Tush Cush from Cake because it has a unique jelly texture that’s great for anal sex and to use with toys.

BaseWater
Price per ounce$6

Sliquid Silk Hybrid Lubricant 8.5 fl oz

Silk Hybrid Lubricant 8.5 fl oz

Sliquid Silk Hybrid Lubricant 8.5 fl oz

This lube can be used for everything: anal sex, oral sex, and use with toys. It’s also pH-balanced. It’s a one size fits all type deal!

Read more: Best Lubes for Sensitive Skin

BaseWater
Price per ounce$2.70
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What to Use With Your Lube

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A new class of lotions, and oils enhances sex while also protecting how your skin looks and feels down there.

For foreplay: Use Maude's Burn No.3 Massage Candle, which sets the mood and melts into a massage oil that moisturizes with botanicals, leaving everyone’s skin super smoooooth.

For cleanup: Lubes help sex feel great—until it’s over. Future Method Butt + Body Scrub uses chia and jojoba beads to de-sticky your skin and keep it feeling healthy.

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Garrett Munce

Garrett Munce writes about men's style and grooming. He's written for Esquire, New York Magazine, Spotlyte, and Very Good Light and held staff positions at GQ and W. Follow his skincare obsession on Instagram at @garrettmunce.

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