The 20 Best Butt Plugs for Men—And How to Use Them During Sex

Just like you work out at the gym and train your muscles, slightly increasing the weight when you feel stronger, this butt plug set trains your booty hole for length and girth. Our testers say this is one of the safest and best kits to increase your size preference, making it also great for beginners.

It comes with five different plugs, for the gradual increase in size. Not to judge a butt plug by its cover, but there's also something satisfying about the pastel blues and minimalist design.

What do buyers say? " Does the job for an almost 30 year old practicing for eventually meeting their long-distance partner," says one customer. "Only wish they had another set with even bigger sizes."

If you're into the Snug Plug and up for a challenge—like, a serious challenge—this XL option is 6.5 inches long and weighs a little over a pound.

It might just be one of the heaviest butt plugs we've tested— a truly astonishing 515g. If your bottom is dying for bigger and better things, this is the toy. Our sex experts noted that seasoned butt plug enthusiasts will love how easy it is to insert given its size, but it might not be suitable for intermediate or new users. Plus, some testers say the upturned ends of the "T" dig into the perineum during prolonged insertion.

What do buyers say? "I almost use it daily now," said one customer. "Not for beginners for sure. Lots of lube and squatting down helps it go in easier. I promise once you get it you will not be disappointed."

An inflatable butt plug truly is a strange idea, but like many bizarre things, it led to something phenomenal. With it, you can expand the plug while it's inside of you, and it's unlike any other sensation you've ever experienced.

Most butt plugs focus on depth, when clearly this one focuses more on width and hitting your inner walls. In a previous review, we wrote, "The IBP was absolutely wild. The sensation of having the depth of your inner walls stretched is like no other, and can lead to intense orgasms. It can also prepare you for bigger and better things to come"

What do buyers say? "The vibrations are incredible but when I inflate it inside me it feels incredible," says one customer. "My orgasms are so intense and I can't resist finding out just how much I can inflate this sexy toy."

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Consider investing in an anal training kit if you're totally new to butt play and looking to make it a regular part of your routine. This set is the perfect place to start for beginners interested in anal play.

Inside is a small butt plug that's great for beginners, a medium-sized vibrating butt plug, and a large weighted butt plug for bonus "fullness." It also comes with an enema for cleaning out down there along with lube applicator. Though one tester said that one she graduated from the small size, she never needed it again.

What do buyers say? "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again," says one customer. "After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place.

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This set of three silicone butt plugs is a #1 bestseller in Amazon's collection of anal training kits, with over 2,100 five-star reviews. Testers say the curved shape makes them super comfy for long-term wear and great for prostate stimulation. The smallest one is around the size of a pinky finger, so you can start small and work your way up.

What do buyers say? "The toys went in without any pain and were easy to clean and get out," says one customer. "Very enjoyable and seem to be quality made. Recommend for starters like myself."

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We can't say enough good things about b-Vibe's Snug Plugs. The material is silky smooth, and each plug contains a weighted ball that you can vaguely feel moving around as you move your body—a fun, sexy twist on the feeling of fullness a butt plug already brings to the table.

At 3.4 inches long and 0.88 inches wide, this is b-Vibe's smallest Snug Plug, meaning it's great for beginners. Our editors also found that its compact size makes it great for traveling, as it easily fits into larger toiletry bags.

What do buyers say? "The size is excellent for beginners or those who just want an added treat," says one customer. "It fits snugly and smoothly. Weight and size are ideal. Great for play with other toys."

The term "boyfriend dick" refers to a penis that isn't too big or too small—just a standard peen you'd be happy coming home to every day. Well, the Snug Plug 3 is the boyfriend dick of butt plugs, our testers say.

If you're used to putting things in your booty, this 4.7-inch plug will feel like no big deal to get in, but you'll still know it's there—especially thanks to those weighted balls inside the head. Though some testers say that the color fades with use, which might be a sign that it's time to replace it.

What do buyers say? "These plugs go in easy and leave you never wanting to remove them," says one customer. "The 2 is perfect for me to wear all day, giving just a little stimulation and a feeling of fullness. The 3 takes it to another level, and is the perfect step up."

It's the boyfriend dick of butt plugs, this time with vibrations. (It can vibrate at four speeds and in six different patterns.) One tester said she loved wearing this during penetrative sex, which she described as "brain blowing." Plus its four speeds and six vibrating patterns adds a level of customization during your play. Though testers note that the snug plug only features 60 minutes of play on a single charge, which isn't as long as other vibrating butt plugs we've tested.

What do buyers say? "It can take a little work to get it in, but once there it feels oh so good!" says one customer. "The vibrations are so strong and deep and the weight feels so satisfying."

Speaking of weighty butt plugs, we're big fans of njoy's high-quality stainless steel sex toys—like this one. Our editors love its luxurious finish, which also makes it a great sexy gift.

The frictionless metal makes for relatively easy insertion (still, we beg of you to use lube!). It has 3 insertable inches and a 3.1 inch girth that is perfect for beginners looking to move up. Plus, our editors love that its stainless steel build gives a cooling or heating sensation during sex. Though some testers say that the metal feels harsh compared to silicone.

What do buyers say? "The design fits smoothly where you want it and while it may feel cool to touch, when it warms its an amazing feeling," says one customer.

For folks with slightly more anal experience, njoy's even larger version of its signature stainless steel plug gets up to 4.7 inches in circumference around the head. It feels luxuriously smooth and has a finger loop for easy handling. Though all of our sex experts warned that this plug is not for beginners.

What do buyers say? "I love the fullness and the weight this plug brings," says one customer. "The way it stretches me feels delicious. Every time I wear it, I know it’s there, but it doesn’t hurt or cause any worry."

B-Vibe has a line of butt plugs that simulate the sensation of anilingus. It has rotating beads at the base of the toy, which you can turn on once the head of the toy is inside you. It is an absolutely stupendous feeling to have something inside you while also having stimulation to your external anus.

Our editors love that the wireless remote works up to 30 feet away, which can make for great partner play, and the fact that the motor is powerful yet incredibly quiet. Though other editors say that the overall size might be too big for the insertable length, and that it's not completely waterproof, which makes cleanup a bit messy.

What do buyers say? "Simple to clean, easy to charge and coated in a lovely silky silicone that flexes well with the movement of the beads," says one buyer. "The whole thing is also great quality and you really feel like you're getting what you paid for."

Okay, so we're obsessed with the name "Butt Tingler," but we promise that's not the only thing we love about this silky-smooth toy from Lovehoney. Vibrating butt plugs tend to be more expensive than their non-vibrating counterparts, but this one comes at a relatively low price point—great for guys who aren't sure if they want their butt to tingle, but are curious enough to give it a try.

One tester said that it has a goldilocks size, and the the capable vibration adds an added layer of pleasure during solo play. Although it claims to be waterproof, some users say it stopped working after using it in the shower.

What do buyers say? "This model fits very well and remains in place while the vibrator gets to work calming and soothing and creating a pleasure to experience," says one buyer.

Switch up your internal sensations with the spiral texture on this affordable plug. It's designed for newbies with a gradual girth. The spiral texture heightens internal arousal while its flared base and slim neck give you comfort. (Does this butt plug look like a soft-service ice cream cone, or is that just us?) Our editors say that this is a great, affordable option for beginners.

What do buyers say? "Nice material and sturdy yet flexible!" says one buyer. "Nice ribbed texture makes it easy to insert, and we also used lube which also helps."

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This is a two-for-one deal right here. The snug plug from b-Vibe is actually weighted, which gives you the sensation of feeling really "full." In this iteration of the snug plug, it's connected to a cock ring, which can help strengthen your erection. Though some testers note that beginners may take some time setting it up, and it does take quite a bit of practice to get used to it.

We're including a glass butt plug on the list because there's something cool you can do with glass plugs that you can't with regular plugs: freeze 'em.

Trust us: our sex editors have done this with glas' Amethyst glass butt plug, and it's exhilarating to have an ice-cold plug inside your behind. It wakes you the hell up, we'll tell you that much! Don't worry. Glass plugs are developed using a specific type of glass, so they're shatter-proof.

What do buyers say? "It slides in easy and I can clench on it and feel it while I'm sitting," says one customer. "Definitely good for beginners to help you get used to having plugs in!"

For when you want a butt plug that's also a work of art. Seriously: We're not opposed to you incorporating this baby into your home decor. One of our testers noted that it looks great on on top of his nightstand. Another sex expert also loved its suction cup end, which lets you stick it to a flat surface so you can ride it for hands-free playing.

What do buyers say? "Looks really nice and fills me up nicely," says one customer. "It's really comfortable to wear, and the knobbly bit is in the right place for me."

If you like the idea of a partner controlling the vibrations in your booty, then we highly recommend this vibrating butt plug from We-Vibe. It works with a remote control or an app, making it a great way to have long distance sex. (Of course, you can use it during masturbation, too!) And if you’re feeling extra risqué, pop this in for date night to start the foreplay early. Our editors love its ergonomic design, which makes it easy to insert.

What do buyers say? "I love how this rubs all the right places in all the right spots gets my blood flowing to an explosion of overwhelming goodness!" says one customer.

A faux fox tail butt plug is the perfect way to add a hint of playfulness into your sex life. Whether you're a newbie experiencing role play or you're looking for a new tail, this one from Dominix is top-rated, best-seller in its category. The steel plug is meant to be warmed or cooled in water before use for an extra spicy kick. It's a medium to compact plug that does the trick, without making size or rimming the priority. Our editors love that the tail unscrews for easy cleaning.

What do buyers say? "Good length and tail strength, it doesn’t irritate your legs like some other tails," says one reviewer.

The full-size version of this is so good, we couldn't not add the petite-sized, vibrating, rimming butt plug. Our editors found that this is a great butt plug for beginners that massagers the anal sphincters through vibrations to relax anxieties for an all-around better time. Lube this baby up, and you'll wonder why you waited so long to try out butt stuff.

What do buyers say? "The lower settings were great for a nice tease in preparation for the higher vibration," says one customer. "Perfect for a little exhibitionism."

This baby allows you to cycle through a variety of rumbly vibration modes with the Lovesense Bluetooth controlled app (hello long distance lovers). Plus, for those who crave a sex routine, you can create your own patterns of stimulation and even synch them to music. Between the motor, shape, and app functionality, it's one of the best butt plugs for beginners.

What do buyers say? "Great product, and feels extremely great on my prostate and stays in very well and really like the tapered flange," says one customer.