The 36 Best Sex Toys for Gay, Bi, and Queer Men

A staple in every queer man's bedroom is a stainless steel cock ring. Pro tip: Don't get cocky (pun intended) with sizing. Odds are you're a small or medium, not a large, buddy boy.

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"Too few penis toys account for the fact that penises come in all shapes and sizes (duh), but the brand new Arcwave Voy has a 'tightness adjustment functionality' that allows you to grip as firm or as soft as you like," Box says. "It’s also an open-ended stroker, allowing you (or someone else) to stimulate the glans as you stroke yourself silly."

The Eternity cock and ball tugger offers two rings in one for a hug around your whole package and a tug around your balls. This bad boy can definitely help you stay erect and last longer.

We don't think of lube as being a sex toy, but I'd argue it is one of the most fundamental and necessary sex toys, especially for queer men who have anal sex, as the anus is not self-lubricating.

"When it comes to anal, I generally recommend a silicone-based lube (unless you’re using a silicone toy)," Box says. "That’s because silicone lubes are slicker, thicker, and last longer than water-based lubes, meaning you won’t have to stop to re-apply as often.

Momentum's silicone lube is great for guys who love anal sex. A little drop goes a long way.

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Condoms may not technically be a sex toy, but since they are still the best method to prevent a range of STIs, we recommend them. P.S. condoms are vegan, so they don't have that weird "condom-y" smell; they are also one of the thinnest condoms on the market, which mimic that "feels like nothing is there" sensation.

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The "Butt Tingler" from Lovehoney is about as standard as a vibrating butt plug can be. It's made from silicone and is 3.5 inches in length making it ideal for beginners.

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These inexpensive one-time use "pleasure sleeves" are a great way to finish off your Sniffies hook-up. Take your handjob skills to the next level. The best part is, when you're done, you don't need to clean up. Just throw it away.

I just linked to Christopher Milan's Fleshlight because I think he's fine AF, but if you peruse the Fleshlight site, there are plenty of other male models and porn stars to choose from, including Diego Sans, Allen King, and more.

There is something undeniably funny about the FleshSack, an anal masturbator with testicles. If you get turned on by ball-slapping sex, then yeah, you need this.

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"An affordable and powerful vibrating prostate massager with eight vibration modes and 12 speeds to flirt with," Box says. "Its medium size makes it a great option for novice and intermediate anal players."

"This cock ring is not only adjustable courtesy of its Custom Fit link, but can be controlled via an app or remote, meaning you could wear this discreetly and play in public," Box says.

More and more vibrators are being marketed toward people with a penis—this one included. If you're using it with a partner, stick your penis through that hole and let your partner move it up and down your shaft. If you're using it solo, know that this is one of the best masturbators out there if you're into edging.

I love this toy. You control the speed and intensity of the vibrations by tilting the remote control. It also stimulates your perineum (a.k.a. your taint or grundle) along with your prostate.

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This is one of the ONLY vibrating stainless steel butt plugs on the market. If you've never tried it, it's a must.

These are cheap and easy cuffs for when you only have 30 minutes to restrain and plow that guy from Scruff.

b-Vibe's amazing butt plugs simulate the feeling of getting a rim job (a.k.a. analingus). It's like, who even needs a boyfriend anymore?

This toy stimulates your rectum, prostate, and perineum. It really gets up in there. With the Duke, you might have orgasms so intense, you'll hear "Rain on Me" and see rainbows instead of stars.

I love me a glass dildo. (Don't worry, there's no way for it to shatter while in use.) Pro tip: Put it in the freezer to make it cold—you'll experience brand-new sensations!

You want to feel full? Like really full? Then I'd recommend this inflatable butt plug.

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